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    <published>2009-09-29T03:08:09Z</published>
    <updated>2009-09-29T03:08:23Z</updated>
    <title>Learn The Secret Language Of Money</title>
    <summary>--&gt;Think that just because you know what a credit default swap is, you can speak the secret language of money? Think again. Psychiatrist/executive coach David Krueger has studied how we relate to our cash, and has put his research into a new book, &quot;The Secret Language of Money: How to Make Smarter Financial Decisions and Live a Richer Life.&quot; Lesson one from Dr. Krueger: &quot;Money speaks to us and we speak with money. It&apos;s kind of a Rorschach; we imbue it with whatever values or meanings we want.&quot; Uh, okay.</summary>
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<p><!--<img src="http://consumerist.com/images/consumerist/2009/09/thumb160x_piggies.jpg" class="left image158" width="158" />-->Think that just because you know what a credit default swap is, you can speak the secret language of money? Think again. Psychiatrist/executive coach David Krueger has studied how we relate to our cash, and has put his research into a new book, "The Secret Language of Money: How to Make Smarter Financial Decisions and Live a Richer Life." Lesson one from Dr. Krueger: "Money speaks to us and we speak with money. It's kind of a Rorschach; we imbue it with whatever values or meanings we want." Uh, okay.</p>
<p>Actually, if you can accept Krueger's psychological take, some of his ideas can be very practical. For example, he warns against an "optimism bias," which affects our ability to make rational investment decisions or plan for the future:</p>
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<p>What it calls into question is really looking at planning and overcoming an optimism bias that we all have that things are going to work out, that we will get funded somehow and we'll be healthy forever. It really calls into focus the need to realistically envision what life will be like between years 75 and 100, and where income will come from. Not to worry about it, but how to plan for it.</p>
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<p>Of course, if you like the psychological side of things, Krueger does manage to channel Freud at least a few times. "Money is one of the two or three more common things that emotional issues hitchhike on," he says. "Others include food and sex. But money, I really believe, leads the way." Right. And sometimes a dollar bill is just a dollar bill.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.bankrate.com/finance/financial-literacy/the-underlying-meaning-of-money-1.aspx">Secret language of money is complicated</a> [Bankrate.com]</p>
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    <title>Comment from RandomHookup on 2009-09-29</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><p>So money can't make up for my sexual shortcomings? Major bummer...</p></p>]]>
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    <published>2009-09-29T18:40:20Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from Bunnies_Attack! on 2009-09-29</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>@<a href="#c15663774" rel="nofollow">wvFrugan</a>: Where is that from?</p>]]>
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    <published>2009-09-29T18:17:29Z</published>
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    <id>tag:64.14.177.195,2009://1.5369664-comment:15670054</id>
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    <title>Comment from Excited_Utterance on 2009-09-29</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>"we imbue it with whatever values or meanings we want."</p>
<p>Commodity fetishist! Burn the Marxist!</p>]]>
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    <published>2009-09-29T18:15:04Z</published>
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    <id>tag:64.14.177.195,2009://1.5369664-comment:15667526</id>
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    <title>Comment from legwork on 2009-09-29</title>
    <author>
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        <uri></uri>
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        <![CDATA[<p>The job market for executive coaching ain't what it used to be!</p>]]>
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    <published>2009-09-29T11:51:48Z</published>
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    <id>tag:64.14.177.195,2009://1.5369664-comment:15664795</id>
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    <title>Comment from MooseOfReason on 2009-09-29</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>My money isn't telling me to buy Krueger's book.</p>]]>
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    <published>2009-09-29T07:42:40Z</published>
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    <id>tag:64.14.177.195,2009://1.5369664-comment:15664694</id>
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    <title>Comment from doctor_cos wants you to remain calm on 2009-09-29</title>
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        <name>doctor_cos wants you to remain calm</name>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I thought my money was <i>watching me.</i><br />
No, wait, that's just the money I could save by switching to Gc.</p>]]>
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    <published>2009-09-29T07:36:41Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from cuiusquemodi on 2009-09-29</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>@<a href="#c15661792" rel="nofollow">MostlyHarmless</a>: One day, the world will look up and shout, "Bail us out!" and I'll whisper "no."</p>]]>
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    <published>2009-09-29T07:29:39Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from wvFrugan on 2009-09-29</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><p>Putting aside some of the excellent practical points and even some spot-on psycobable, I resent this type of financial wisdom that projects the typical American belief that everyone can find a large degree of independent financial security in our current system of predatory capitalism.</p><br />
<p>To quote another..."The idea that making the right choices will lead to a particular desired outcome in any endeavor in life is the mindset of the privileged of this world. If you're born with a good set of genes and have the right options in life for economic or career success, that holds true. It simply isn't so for everyone. "</p><br />
<p>I once made it to the ranks of the privilaged, but an accident stole my health and workers' compensation and health insurance stole my wealth. I did all the right things and had all the safeguards in place (disability insurance, etc.), but they lie.</p></p>]]>
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    <published>2009-09-29T06:41:46Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from MostlyHarmless on 2009-09-28</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>@<a href="#c15660755" rel="nofollow">RecordStoreToughGuy_OwesNigeriaAnApology</a>: You keep calling me Benjamin. I don't like you.</p>]]>
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    <published>2009-09-29T04:20:29Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from AngryK9 on 2009-09-28</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><p>@<a href="http://consumerist.com/5369664/learn-the-secret-language-of-money#c15660632" rel="nofollow">jeffbone</a>: The only thing on the paycheck that belongs to me is my name. Anything else belongs to some guy named Bill.</p></p>]]>
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    <published>2009-09-29T04:14:46Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from MostlyHarmless on 2009-09-28</title>
    <author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>@<a href="#c15660808" rel="nofollow">RecordStoreToughGuy_OwesNigeriaAnApology</a>: Hahahahahahahahahaha. I was about to make a Watchmen reference.</p>]]>
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    <published>2009-09-29T04:13:08Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from evilmage on 2009-09-28</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>@<a href="#c15660808" rel="nofollow">RecordStoreToughGuy_OwesNigeriaAnApology</a>: +1</p>]]>
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    <published>2009-09-29T04:11:35Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from smartmuffin on 2009-09-28</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><p>My money is telling me not to waste it on books about talking money.</p></p>]]>
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    <published>2009-09-29T04:04:51Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from RecordStoreToughGuy_KnowsThreeChords on 2009-09-28</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>@<a href="#c15660778" rel="nofollow">umbriago</a>: The money will look up and shout "Save me!" and I'll whisper "...no."</p>]]>
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    <published>2009-09-29T03:28:56Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from umbriago on 2009-09-28</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Why I can hear the money speaking right now, twenties and tens arguing in my back pocket...<br />
 <br />
<i>spend me</i><br />
<b>save me</b><br />
<i>spend me. your tires are bald.</i> <br />
<b>save me. you want to be sleeping on a sewer grate at age 70?</b><br />
<i>spend me, it's later than you think</i><br />
<b>save me, you never know</b><br />
<i>no, wait, you can get by on those tires another month, NOOOOOOOOO</i><br />
<b>hahahaha. no. NO! not the lottery, NOOOOOOO</b></p>
<p>and now, all is quiet.</p>]]>
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    <published>2009-09-29T03:26:58Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from RecordStoreToughGuy_KnowsThreeChords on 2009-09-28</title>
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        <name>RecordStoreToughGuy_KnowsThreeChords</name>
        <uri></uri>
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        <![CDATA[<p>My money's not locked in here with me; <i>I'm</i> locked in here with <i>it!</i></p>]]>
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    <published>2009-09-29T03:25:47Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from jeffbone on 2009-09-28</title>
    <author>
        <name>jeffbone</name>
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        <![CDATA[<p><i>And sometimes a dollar bill is just a dollar bill.</i></p>
<p>Indeed.  Piffle on the psychobabble.</p>
<p>I've figured out the simple language my money uses:</p>
<p>"Good bye!!"</p>]]>
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    <published>2009-09-29T03:20:14Z</published>
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