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@yourbffjill: I like your way of thinking. I'm not a \"romantic\" that treats one day as a celebration of LOVE. I am much more attracted to the deals I (and DH) can get after the event. I've even suggested that we try the \"Orthodox Greek Christmas\" day
of celebration so that we can have a great Christmas without going bankrupt. It's just the practical side of me.
Guys, trust me. ALWAYS bring or send flowers, preferably roses. Damn the expense and the cliché.
I am not a frilly girly-girl type, but on Valentine's Day and our anniversary there had damn well better be a vase of beautiful flowers waiting for me! Believe me, unless your beloved has violent alleriges to flowers, you cannot go wrong.
And forget about candy; by February we're all frantically counting carbs and calories in prep for bathing-suit season.
@ElizabethD: You are so right! My DH is normally a good guy, but a few days away from Valentine's Day, he always brings me a dozen roses, making a huge deal out of how he didn't want to pay full-price on V-Day. Tip to guys: never brag about how cheap you got your wife's V-Day present, if you want to reap the benefits of said present!
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Seriously? Guys, trust ME. If you want someone who's not so shallow that they insist you get them the same stupid full priced bouquet every year on certain dates, then go ahead, shop for a bargain, get them something thoughtful any day out of the year, and if they dump you for it, breathe a sigh of relief because you definitely dodged a bullet.
There's no hard and fast rule. It depends on what kind of woman you're with--and there's a whole spectrum of them out there. Some will get pissed if you spend a lot on them for V Day, others will get pissed if you don't. But I'm the practical type and tend to be with the similarly-minded women.
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i bought my wife a dooney and bourke. chalk up some more brownie points here!
@yourbffjill: why can't women be like you, I mean a lot of guys think that way, hell I mean he love is there, but they want you to listen to those evil corporations and throw money away in the prospect of love. A few of my friends are practical but the majority is still under the false illusions of romance. Though my friends tell me thats whats keeping me from those cute looking blonde bubble heads.
Here are a few tips for you guys buying flowers:
Roses are too expensive on Vday. They mark them up about 500% in February and the mass production and huge shipments ensures that you get crappy roses that won't last.
Buy orchids instead. Orchids are elegant, exotic, sexy, and they last for weeks - compared to Vday roses, which fade and droop in a few days.
If you must buy roses, DO NOT buy from the supermarket. Go to a florist or a wholesale floral warehouse and get the freshest.
Buy just the flowers, not the arrangement in a vase - it's another ripoff. Don't have them delivered, take them yourself, if you can.
@whitecat: agreed (mostly- personally, i dislike orchids). I work in a high end flower shop; roses are much more expensive (for us as well - we're not price gouging here) and the quality is poorer than at any other time of year. for the $100 you'd drop on a dozen roses in a vase, spend the same amount but instead ask your florist to create an arrangement based on your gf/wife's favorite flower, or color. a dozen roses is BORING done to death and stuck in the mud, show her you thought about her personally. Also, and I can't emphasize this enough, order your flowers for a couple days before or after. The day of Vday, everyone working in the flower shop hates you. Sorry, that's just the way it is after 3 contiguous 14 hour days in rose thorns up to your knees. You'll get vastly better service and much better flowers days before or after the 14th. My personal favorite part of Vday is when I get to start saying, \"I'm sorry, we ran out of red hours ago\" and watch them panic....
Orchids, lke @whitecat: said are inexpensive compared to the roses...sometimes a few orchids with some hydrangea or something a little less expensive would really liven up a bouquet. The flower market is largely designed around special occasions and holidays, but if you go against the grain and still want to give something, that's a good way to go.
I alwas keep a few vases in my house...not only do I like flowers (instant brightness to a room) but then flower companies and florists can't charge you $15 for a $5 vase.
I always order way ahead of time for Valentines day. Most sites like 1800flowers.com let you put in orders up to 3 months in advance. So order up, use a promo code and save some money while not forgetting to do it...
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Since courting, and now in 6 years of wedded bliss, I've always given my wife a Hershey Bar and a bottle of Night Train on Valentines day.
So far, so good.
Guys, remember that scene in Sense and Sensibility where--oh that's right, you never saw it. Okay, let me sum up: Kate Winslet is reclining on a sofa, and Alan Rickman comes in with some fancy hothouse flowers, which she recieves politely but cooly. Then this other guy (can't remember actor's name, sorry) comes in with a bouquet of wildflowers he picked himself, and her whole face just lights up. That's the way you do it.
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@ahwannabe: LOL! I'm guessing that movie did not take place in Michigan. Fresh wildflowers in February indeed...
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I do it for the bootie call.
@ahwannabe: That's more because Winslet's character, being all of seventeen at that point, thought Rickman's character was a decrepit old man, while she had a giant flaming crush on the wildflower guy.
The real lesson is: if the girl likes you already, you can get away with a cheap last-minute gift and she'll think it's thoughtful. If she doesn't, you'll have to spend a lot more money to get her attention, and it still might not work.
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@AuntNi:
DH? David Ortiz brings you flowers on Valentine's day? You must be special indeed. He really should be spending that time getting ready for spring training though.
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We got married on Feb 11 so we celebrate our anniversary/valentine's day together. I am a lucky one though, as even before marriage my wife did not care much about valentine.
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My partner agree not to give each other anything. Free is best.
I can think of a ton of other things I like to get then some flowers on Valentines. I'd be happy getting cheesecake for Valentines!
why not buy her a rose bush and she pick her own flowers every Valentines.
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I boycott Valentine's Day. Its a stupid made up holiday used to drum up business for our failing economy. Instead I spend that day with one of my friends whose birthday is feb 14th.
@MYarms: Valentine's Day is not a made up holiday. If you had said it is overly commercial and contrived I could possibly agree with that - although I like it.
\"Saint Valentine's Day is a saints day commemorating Saint Valentine on February 14. It is the traditional day on which lovers express their love for each other. The holiday is named after two men, both Christian martyrs among the numerous Early Christian martyrs named Valentine. The day became associated with romantic love in the circle of Geoffrey Chaucer in High Middle Ages, when the tradition of courtly love flourished.
@MARTHA__JONES: Or to go back even further:
\"February 14th & Juno Fructifier or Juno Februata:
The Romans celebrated a holiday on February 14th to honor Juno Fructifier, Queen of the Roman gods and goddesses as well as goddess of marriage. In one ritual, women would submit their names to a common box and men would each draw one out. These two would be a couple for the duration of the festival (and at times for the entire following year). Both rituals were designed to promote not only fertility, but also life generally.
February 15th & Feast of Lupercalia:
On February 15, Romans celebrated Luperaclia, honoring Faunus, god of fertility. Men would go to a grotto dedicated to Lupercal, the wolf god, located at the foot of Palatine Hill and where Romans believed that the founders of Rome, Romulus and Remus, were suckled by a she-wolf. The men would sacrifice a goat, don its skin, and run around, hitting women with small whips, an act which was supposed to ensure fertility.\"
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I agree with the florist, A dozen roses is done already. Think of something new.
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The BF and I are skipping the flowers and candy for our first Valentines Day making teddy bears for one another at Build a Bear Workshop.
My gf hates Valentine's Day even more than I do. The last two years we've just hung out.
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My guy and I celebrate Valentine's day about 1-3 days after. 75% off chocolate? Super cheap roses? Sign me up!